Ummm, how old is this picture? Soooo old.

Friday, June 24, 2011

School's Out, School's Out

Yes, I know I should have posted this like three weeks ago or something, but for some reason, I can't get any writing done with 3+ kids in the house. Of course, it could've had something to do with some new books I was reading (ok, obsessed with). And the one week that the kids were at the grandparents' and I could write? My computer crashed. So, yeah, my writing took a back seat. It happens.

But back to my topic: School's Out!

I know I am supposed to say, "I can't believe another school year has come and gone," but that would be a lie. Because I think this was the longest school year ever. Between my babysitting schedule, the homework assignments that never seemed to change, and a desire for warm weather in all of our hearts, we would have to say that summer was way over-due.


It would, however, be true to say that I can't believe how much my children have grown and learned this year.


Kate NaNa has now decided she is Kate. Not Kathryn. Not Katie. Not NaNa. Not any combination of the above. Just Kate. I am sure it is a phase, but if I use anything else she asks, "Why are you calling me that?"

Her end of the year program was a on a day that I was working, so Tim, Will, and I took Mr. O, Mr. A, and Miss O (ages 1,2,&3) to hear Kate sing. You can tell by the photo how thrilled she was to stand up in front of a crowd of strangers and sing about jungle animals.



"You want me to do motions? You have got to be kidding me."

Her certificate stated that she wants to be a firefighter when she grows up. I assumed that she picked that career because it was the first one she thought of, but I could be wrong. In the past few weeks she has told me no less than a dozen times how she and her friend, Vanessa, are both going to be firefighters and live at the fire house. I suppose we shall see.

Her teacher and SLP both raved about how far she has come in terms of her ability to communicate with adults and peers. Plus, on her report card she scored "Mastery" in every single preschool skill. She asked if that meant she could go ahead and go to kindergarten next year since she already knows everything. It's a wonder she Will don't share genetic code.

Speaking of Will, he wrapped up his kindergarten year, receiving the "Loving to Write" award. He is reading easy reader books, and carries around a stack of Wimpy Kid books everywhere he goes, just like his brother.



He is still a huge help to me with the small children. When they are sad, he cheers them up. When they are thirsty, he finds their sippy cup. They adore him.

Ben didn't have an end-of-year program, so I don't have any photos, but he is still reading and writing and drawing comics like crazy. He got the "Whoppers Award" for his class. That means he loves to make up and tell stories. And no, in this case that is not a euphemism for big fat lies. He still wants to be an author when he grows up. He will be a third grader in the fall, and is obsessed with Transformers and Star Wars, as he should be.

And now is the part where I am supposed to talk about how we have two whole months to relax and do nothing, except for the fact that we are down to about six weeks of vacation. But I plan on squeezing in as much relaxing and doing nothing as is humanly possible. Wish me luck.

Saturday, June 11, 2011

The Garden




It won't be long now:)

Friday, June 10, 2011

I Do Know Everything

I could've sworn I told this story before, but I can't seem to find it. Regardless, it always makes me laugh, and it speaks volumes about my son's personality.

I was terrible at potty training my boys. I thought I was a good mother until I attempted to teach my them to use the toilet, but that's when I discovered the truth. My children had only been allowing me to think I was in charge. In reality, they and their bodily functions were in control.

As with anything Will does, potty training involved lots of discussion (aka, arguments). One day we were standing next to the toilet having one such discussion. He was telling me I was wrong in my description of some finer point of his bathroom use. At some point I threw up my hands in exasperation and said, "Fine! You're right. You know everything, don't you?"

He got this really thoughtful expression on his face as though a brand new thought had just occurred to him. "Huh. I do know everything!"

Thursday, May 26, 2011

Family Unity

If you've spent very much time talking about adoption with me, you know that one of the things that I love to see is family preservation. I love adoption and seeing families created, but I love seeing families kept together (in an abuse-free situation, of course) even more.

One of my favorite non-profits is an organization doing work with orphans in China called Love Without Boundaries. They provide medical care, nutrition (formula, cereals, etc.), training for care givers, and many, many other services for orphanages all over the country. Recently I came across their Unity Fund. Basically, there are lots of families in China who want to find a way to get healthcare for their children (duh, right?), but they can't afford it. LWB's Unity Fund steps up and pays for surgery and other care, so that families don't have to do the unthinkable and abandon their child. And there ya go. My new favorite charity.

Today, LWB posted about a father who needed to get care for his newborn son. The baby was born prematurely, and the mother died in childbirth. The baby has developed pneumonia. This father needed help. LWB has stepped up to help this family, but they need help to give help. Go check out the work they are doing and see if it would be something you would be willing to support too.

Seriously. Go on now.

Monday, May 23, 2011

A Musical Debut

And now for Ben's first public performance... "Amazing Grace"





Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Ben: Second Grade

How on earth am I the mother of a second grader? Next month he turns 9. I'm not even sure what to do with that.


This year got off to a rough start. He missed his first grade buddies, most of which were not in his new class. He missed his first grade teacher. Thankfully things have gotten better since Christmas, and he has gotten a chance to do some creative writing. Have I mentioned that Ben wants to be an author someday? He and his brother are currently writing a book together. I love my boys.

Ben's writing is still funny and creative, just like last year, so I thought I would share...

A Poem




A Short Story (I wouldn't read it if you have a weak stomach...)
(Btw, while he does tend to get air sick, he combined parts of a bunch of different flights into one story - except his dad never called him strange. Ben just thought that would be funny. The story is at the bottom if you can't make it out here.)

And quite possibly the best fractions assignment evah.




(For those of you who can't read it: "2/3 of the darth vaders have light sabers." Love it.)

And I love this boy.




The Crazy Airplane Ride

It was a strange day on an airplane. I was with my dad when he told me we were going on a plane. He took me to the air port. Unforchunatly we got to the air port early. I was bored. So I read a little. Then I got really bored. Then we talked a little. Then I got even more bored. Then I Played with my toys for a little bit, and I got SUPER BORED! Then I wached tv until we got on the plane. When I got on the plane I bored again so I played with my toys again. Then they put on a movie. the movie was called Kung Fu Panda. Then Then the gave me a sticker book to intertain me until lunch. When lunch was served, I ate everything exept the rice. I ate the bread, chicken, tomatos and corn. My dad argued me to eat my rice. Finally I decided to eat my rice. When I did I threw up all over the plane. It was a big mess! It was icky! I hated throwing up. It wasn't fun. My dad went to tell the workers on the plane. I got a big drink of water. I felt like I was going to pass out. My dad took me to the rest room while the workers on the plane cleaned up my throw up. I stayed in the rest room for a long time finally I went back to my seat then we arived at China my dad called me "Strange." now I will never eat rice again.

Monday, May 2, 2011

Processing




The other day I was looking at a picture of a little boy with unrepaired cleft lip/palate on the LWB Facebook page. I try to expose Kate to this often, because the first dozen or so times she saw an unrepaired lip, she was really squeamish about the whole thing. She is now getting to the point of being able to see it as a part of herself and not feeling yucky about it.

Kate (in a happy voice) - Ooh, he has cleft palate!
Me - Yes, you had that when you were born, didn't you?
Kate - Mommy, did I come out of your belly?
Me - No, sweetie, you came out of your first mama's belly. She is Chinese like you.
Kate - What is her name?
Me - I don't know. I wish I knew, but I don't. If I knew her I would tell her how wonderful you are and thank her for giving birth to you.
Kate - When can we go back to China and find her name?
Me - I don't know. I don't know if we could ever find her. Maybe no one knows who your first mama is except for God.
Kate - Is He that boy who died on the cross?
Me - Yes, Jesus died on the cross.
Kate - Can we watch that movie again (referring to the Miracle Maker)? I liked that.
Me - Yes, dear, we can watch the movie about Jesus again.

Sigh.

In seconds, I went from pride because she was happy to see a face with cleft lip, to sadness for her that we don't know who her first mama is, to giggling silently because she referred to Jesus as "that boy who died on the cross."

One thing I am sure of, is that with Kate life will always be an adventure.